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A man using an adult product, specifically an anal toy or male masturbator, such as Fleshlights, is more looked down upon than a woman using an adult product, whether it’s a Laya spot or sex furniture or more. But today I’m going to specifically talk about men and anal products.

There are 5 main categories having to do with anal sex toys where in one, most men can find a place.

1. Anal sex toys are a part of their sex life.

2. They’ve experimented once or twice and found that, really, anal sex toys just don’t do anything for them.

3. They’ve never used anal sex toys but might give it a shot if there was reason to.

4. Men who find anal play to be a big turn-off, it’s dirty, and they just have no interest what-so-ever.

5. The anus is a one-way street, nothing will ever go up there, putting any sort of sex toy up there is emasculating, only women and homosexuals use anal sex toys.

Men should never think that using anal sex toys means that they are gay. Being gay is not an activity but a state of mind. Enjoying anal play doesn’t make you gay, but enjoying any sexual activity or getting sexually aroused by another man does, and that’s pretty much it.

OK then, maybe I should give it a try, but isn’t the anus really small? How can I fit a sex toy up there without it hurting?

First, the anus is packed with nerve endings, which is why so many people enjoy anal play. In fact anal play is one area where men have women beat, there is a small organ in men only, anally accessible, that is often compared to the woman’s g-spot, it’s the prostate. The nerve endings in the prostate are incredibly dense and properly stimulated they can give men a fantastic amount of pleasure.

And as far as size is concerned, the anus isn’t as small as many people think. Although many sizes of anal sex toys could fit up there, if used without warming up and preparing properly, it could be very uncomfortable.

The sphincter muscles are very strong and keep the anus tighly closed to avoid leaking, which is why the anus seems so small to so many people. So before engaging in any anal play you should make sure you’re nice and relaxed, if you’re tense the muscles will be tight and anything you do will not feel good. So start with plenty of lube and a small anal sex toy or a finger and as you relax and get warmed up you’ll be able to move onto more substantial sex toys.

Also remeber to use plenty of lubrication, the body won’t make its own so you need to provide it all. And you should always use a water-based lube, never silicone, silicone-based lubes won’t break down in your anus and over time will start to cause discomfort.

There’s no hurry so take it slowly and enjoy the new sensations that you experience along the way.

OK, so I won’t be gay if I use an anal sex toy and I now know that if taken slowly it won’t hurt, but isn’t it dirty?

If you just start in and use anal sex toys at any time of the day, yes, it could get dirty. However, the body does a pretty good job of keeping your insides pretty clean, so to make sure everthying is ready for anal play you just need to keep a couple things in mind. First, try to only engage in anal play relatively soon after a bowel movement, this ensures an empty space, second, take a shower, you can buy an anal douche that will rinse out your insides if you’d like as well.

Even though you’ve properly cleaned everything, you might still find it a bit dirty or might have a few more reservations about the cleanliness. If you’re using an anal sex toy go ahead and throw a condom over it or use a latex glove (careful of allergies) if using your fingers. But be careful if using a condom, you wouldn’t want it slipping off and getting stuck up there.

In conclusion, all men should at least try anal ply, either with their partner or using an anal sex toy alone, you may just find a new love!